According to psychologists Nathaniel Branden and Robert Sternberg, who have both researched and written about the challenges of romantic relationships, these little displays of interest and affection can be more important than all the "active listening" and trust games in the world. Their research has suggested 10 keys to keeping both partners content, satisfied, and happy with each other.

　　根據心理學家Nathaniel Branden和Robert Sternberg的介紹,他們都是研究有關浪漫愛情中的挑戰(zhàn),并撰寫相關的文章.以下少少的興致和感情的表露,(對于維持愛情,)會比一切的積極聆聽和信任游戲更重要.他們的研究得出維持兩者彼此之間感覺愉快,滿意和高興的10個關鍵.

1. Tell your partner you love them.

　　1.告訴你的伴侶,你愛他/她.

2. Show some affection.

　　2.表露感情.

　　3. Show appreciation for your partner.

　　3.贊賞對方.

4. Share yourself.

　　4.分享自己的一切.5. Be there for your partner.

　　5.時刻準備著為情人服務.6. Give gifts.

　　6.送禮物.7. Respond gracefully to your partner's demands and shortcomings.

　　7.善待情人的要求和缺點.8. Make "alone time" a priority.

　　8.獨處時間優(yōu)先.9. Take nothing for granted.

　　9.沒什么是理所當然的.10. Strive for equality.

　　10.為平等奮斗